Kelly Telly

How we wish people do not judge us. But unfortunately we ourselves cannot stop judging others. And I do not mean this is a bad way! I mean, we want to stop judging others, but we can’t. Technically because it is wired in our brain. ‘Judgement’ is just a label that we slap onto our instant unverified thoughts. What happens actually is, our brain make shortcut thoughts, accumulated from our experiences, beliefs and personalities, to be more efficient. In addition, our brain purposely favors the ‘bad’ judgements over a good one, for the sake of survival. So how can we stop our judgement towards others? Let’s be honest – we can’t. It is a part of human brain functioning. In fact, removing it as a whole would be even more harmful to us. But… We can greatly minimize its effect that causes discrimination… by just minding our own business. Literally. Like I said, we cannot stop ourselves from judging others, both consciously and unconsciously. But it can stay just as an assumption that we wou

“How Are You?”, written by Assistant Psychologist Aiman Amri and Youth Motivator Aiman Azlan, explores the topic of Stress, Anxiety and Depression; from how survivors can cope with them to how friends and family members can understand these human problems better, so that they may be compassionate and considerate towards those who struggle in silence. p/s: Okay, here’s a backstory. I’ve been wanting to do this video for a looong time, but I always had to put it off, and eventually I gave up. But, as MCO started in Malaysia, there was a book review contest, so I submitted this video. As you may have guessed, I didn’t win 😅, but it’s a relief for me to finally do this video. Enjoy! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KellyTellyPage/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TweetKellyTelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellytelly_ig/ YouTube: http://bit.ly/2DpIrBN

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pennlive.com Pembunuhan George Floyd, seorang lelaki berkulit hitam oleh seorang polis berkulit putih di Amerika Syarikat sedang mendapat perhatian yang meluas, bukan sahaja dalam kalangan rakyat mereka sendiri, bahkan seluruh dunia. Tanda pagar #BlackLivesMatter sudah sekian lama digunakan, namun perkara yang berlaku kali ini mendesak semua orang untuk melakukan tindakan yang konkrit, bukan hanya setakat menularkan tanda pagar. Tidak ketinggalan juga, ramai rakyat Malaysia yang berkongsi mesej solidariti di media sosial, yang turut bersuara agar keadilan tertegak. Yalah, kita orang Malaysia yang tak duduk sana pun boleh nampak sentimen anti kulit hitam yang semakin menjadi-jadi di sana. Jadi aku, sebagai seorang rakyat Malaysia, bertanya kepada diri aku sendiri; apa pengajaran yang sesuai & adil, yang boleh aku ambil daripada peristiwa ini? Sebab aku ada dengar berita bahawa ada yang mengambil peristiwa itu bulat-bulat & dikatakan, “Nah, ini juga realiti kita di Malaysia.” Aku

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